"We human being, always find a solution, maybe not today, but if you really want to solve a problem, there’s always a way" – Ma Yun @ Stanford, 2013
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Satisfaction! And the Unsatisfied Mind!

by Md Imran Hasan Hira

Satisfaction, it’s a thing that some people always want, but never happy with it. Only few people are happy with whatever they have. And it’s one of the challenging task in the world to remain happy. People think like they need to do something, or achieve something, and when they reach that achievement, they think of something else. This continuous change of need creates a flow of work in people’s life and that’s how human growth happens.

The people, who are never happy, I call them “Unsatisfied mind”. These minds always look for happiness. And whenever they are in that state, they kind of have a feeling “nope, something is wrong, may be I’m not pushing myself enough”. It’s the stability that makes them worried. It’s the calmness that disturbs them.

There was a guy called Abraham Maslow and he has a theory, called as Malsow’s hierarchy of needs. It presents that a person has certain kinds of need and those needs can be grouped together in several levels. A person jumps to higher level of needs only after they satisfy one level of needs. Now, the “Unsatisfied person” that I’m talking about, they don’t follow Maslow’s need theory. They actually starts from the top. So basically they either don’t have any need or they have satisfied all need. In either way, they create some kind of extra needs even if they are on the top level. And that keeps themselves running for future days.

Finally, being happy is good when you want to rest, and being unhappy is good if you want to push yourself. Actually it comes the other way around. People restlessly push themselves 🙂


Mind Body – The essential feedback loop

by Md Imran Hasan Hira

For quite a long period of time, I thought our body is a engine, which only converts the brain signals into some series of actions. But recently I have realized that this conversion cycle can be biased with a simple trick.

This trick works really well with me. I will try to explain it with few pictures
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Basically, the body takes some brain signals and generates some actions. for example if we want to walk, then it signals the muscles to be active, which then makes our foot to step front. There are two types of sources that can generate brain signal – your future desire, your current mode.

Both of these sources are kind of automatic. Your future desires are generated on your own, with the discussions you conduct with your surroundings, with the people you meet, your family and friends shape your desires. When that desires trigger brain to signal something, the body takes it and perform accordingly. If the actions bring good results, it makes you happy and thus you feel in good mood.

However, there is a very important thing. Human can bias their mood. Human can deliberately think that they are in good mood. Since your instantaneous  mode, contributes contributes a lot to your brain, it can be used to bypass the regular mind-body conversion process. You think that you feel good then after few moments you will start feeling more better. This is the hack.

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Do you know what you do when you feel happy ? If not, that’s ok. Let me help you finding few. Some people make smile when they are happy, some people celebrate when they are happy, they make jokes, they travel, they eat good recipe, they talk to other people, help new people. These are all very common symbol of our current happiness. I’m quite sure that you have something more to find about yourself.

Now that you have at least some behavior that you do when you are happy, can you deliberately do any of them when you are not happy? I think this is the challenge. The happiest people automatically do these actions even though they aren’t “happy”. Since they are doing it subconsciously, their mind always think that something good is happening and thus they remain happy always 🙂


Trusted Confidence – A preface to Scientific Method for engineers

by Md Imran Hasan Hira

There are so many times, I wanted to do something and then end up not doing it. Or even worse, messed up completely, going lost without any trace of what I was doing.

Let me tell you a story. I went to visit one of my known person in a different city. A few other countrymen also joined. We had talks, lots of food, laughter. It was an interesting get together. At the end, we were watching football match. The host brought a watermelon. I was so delighted to see watermelon, though in my deep stomach, I was full. I saw that the host was afraid to take the knife to cut it. I realized that the fear is not on cutting the watermelon, but it’s on the knife. So I went to the kitchen side to help a bit. I took the knife, cut the watermelon into half, and then into several small pieces, like in this picture –

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You know, I like the watermelon to eat this way. Biting on crunchy melons is a heavenly thing. Well, I eat it like this, because the place I spent my childhood, we used to eat it this way. But here goes the problem. I saw later, that the host was trying hard to bite on the pieces, and kind of mixing the juices with dress. So I asked what had happened and the host replied it’s inconvenient. Then I took the knife again and cut the remaining slices into pieces in a way that the host was surprised. There was an awe from her – “It’s that easy!”. Well, I’m not a magician. The simple thing I did, was something like below –

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The only reason of myself being an expert(!) in kitchen stuffs was that she didn’t watch this way before, and I had read an article about it around an year ago. I knew there was an way to cut it in better shape with ease. Though I couldn’t apply it in first hand, but when I saw her problem, the solution instantly hit my head. It might be possible that she already knew, but was surprised to give me a good feeling. In either case, get to know the solution beforehand is interesting.

As an engineer, I have to solve a lot of problems in daily basis. I work as a Software Developer. I see many people around me solving puzzles. They are mostly technical, work related. At the same time, these engineers solve their day to day life issues. But the main problem I see while doing these stuffs is to hit the problem on the right way.

The best way to solve any problem till so far is the “Scientific Method”. You might have already heard about it. Those who didn’t, it sounds like an obvious one, right? The method that scientists follow :p That’s correct. And those who are already familiar with it, you know it’s a simple one. It’s the process of trial and error. You have a list of hypothesis. You take one, try to prove or disprove it, then if it fails, try the next hypothesis. It’s that simple. It has been the most established way. People who are good at solving problems, are actually very fast in this process. They have had done so many trials that they can tell you the solution to many problems without even trying. Because they know it already.

The hardest part here is to come up with hypothesis. Once you have a hypothesis, though I know its not very easy to test a hypothesis, but sometimes coming up with a hypothesis may seem to be much harder than trying it once you have the hypothesis. I think there are two parts that helps engineers to come up with hypothesis, specially when the problem is really of new type.

First step, the engineer need to have a believe that there is a solution to this problem. He needs to convince himself that it’s possible to solve this puzzle. I call it the Trust part. And then next step, the engineer needs to persuade his mind, that the solution, which is there somewhere hidden, can be found by him. This thing ,I call the Confidence part. Together of these two, the Trusted Confidence helps engineers to get to an hypothesis, that they can try and proceed. And as the hypothesis comes before trying any method, I call this Trusted Confidence, as the preface of any Scientific Method. Unless any engineer fails to do so, will end up wasting time in loops.

The application of these terms are not limited to engineers only. Any people who are using Scientific Methods to feed their need, can also be benefitted by both the Trust and Confidence part. Focusing on these two, helps people to reveal the niddle like hypothesis from haywire. Because finding things in haywire isn’t that easy. Finding objects in dark, when you can not see things, when your sensors are not giving you signals, it’s very hard to move to the target. All you need is the trust that yeah, it’s somewhere there. You keep searching, and eventually you will find it.

Though there is one challenge I find for this Trusted Confidence. It is possible that you kept searching throughout the whole day and at the end of the day you realized that it’s wrong dark room that you were in. It partially conflicts with the first part of Trusted Confidence, but I think there must be a way to avoid this case. It’s like the common problem of how often you should look back. I hope to give some thought on this, later. Any comments on this is also appreciated.


What do you see?

by Md Imran Hasan Hira

When I was a kid, I had always this question, how a movie Director work? What kind of quality they have so that other people let them be directed? I don’t know the answer, but I have some assumptions. I think they understand the whole pattern of sequences. And they can relate characters expressions to those sequences. They have something in their head that tells them if every bits and pitches on the screen are as expected or not. They can see how the people looks like, how their structures, there skeletons. They understand the pattern that this boy or girl will be perfect for the character for his next movie when put in a certain angle.

How does a Mathematician works ? To answer that question, we need to find what math is ? To me, it’s a certain calculation procedure. All the equations we studied in high school, they all represents some sort of calculation. Our fellow ancestor humans found them while working with different things. People found calculating mass of a certain thing help them to trade. Calculating surface area helps them to find out how pain it is needed for a wall. There are a lot of these silly example. I think the most important thing here is to find out a specific case where calculations are needed. Then trying to find out a new formula or enhance an existing one for that calculation. I think that’s where mathematicians are good at.

Now how about artists? I was always overwhelmed by artists. Whenever I look at peoples faces, all I can see is face. Well, obviously that’s a face, but when I try to draw it in paper, I draw a circle for the face, and then some few smaller circles to represent the eyes and another hole for the mouth. But that’s limit for my stupid drawing skill. On the other hand, when an artist get to draw a face, he knows how does a face look like. He remembers all the details that a face has, how much curve do the eyebrows have, the relative distance and directions between the eyepetals, should he draw the eyeline first or later so that he can draw the eyeball borders, how much shade is there under the nose, how much smile is on the leap, and that little dimple, or even all details about it’s gloominess or enchantments. He see all these things, border by border, layer by layer.

Music composers, they feel the vibration of the tunes. They think about the chords, ups and downs of the beats. They know which sequence produces a soothing feeling and which one makes grieve, which one makes joyful feelings. They try with lots of variation on their head and come up with a several pose, try them and finally we get a nice composition.

Poets, They see the nature, they can describe to the deep details which you may have never thought of. It’s just not about nature, it can be any thing, city, human body, event. They basically describe. And to describe you need to see all those little peaks. Putting into words are easy when you get the skill of seeing details.

Magicians see where people wouldn’t see and use that as a illusion. Good magic always looks like an surprise. They remain surprised until they reveal the magic. Sometime even remain thundered after revealing that how could they miss the trick! Sometimes magicians even invent new technology as part of their magic. It’s magicians job to find out scenarios where people will not look over, finding out the blind spots.

Team Leads who works as a people manager, see how the fellow colleagues work, what is blocking them, what are they missing. What could be the possible problem that they are stuck at, did they already identified the problem, are they willing to hear it from a second mouth, would it better to directly suggest the solution or asking the right question to trigger so that the peer finds the problem themselves. That’s how team leads see.

Politicians, they see the trend in people’s need. Good politicians understands what people wants, understands what opponents might be doing, they make relations with other politicians to get the benefit. Investors see the ups ans downs of people need. The need that can be filled up by the product that will be there in future.

As a human, it’s one our greatest skills that we can see. We see different things. If you are reading this line, I give you a special thank, you’ve survived all above stupid words. Enough garbage talks, let me pose the final question, what do you actually see ?


Pursuit of Success ?

by Md Imran Hasan Hira

Try to walk straight keeping your eyes shut. After some time you will see that you got shifted or tilted a bit from the main course. Now open your eyes and correct the deviation. Then start again. We call these making balance. The balance between concentration and correction. Walking on the road with eyes closed, is the weirdest idea. Because you can not see what’s in the road, you may stumble on stones or people from opposite direction, or even you may not be in the footpath. Just like that, you can’t see precisely what’s in future of your life, what you are going to be after 10 years. You can only sense the surroundings and act upon them.

 


Bumps – The obvious part of our life

by Md Imran Hasan Hira

Have you ever watched the small three wheel cars that village children often used to play with. They collect some cycle or rickshaw bearings from repairing shop and set those wheel like bearings to some wooden board. That’s all. It is the car, those children dream of in their childhood.

Have you ever ride on any of them? They are such cranky and uncomfortable that you can feel each jolt of the road. Because the radius of the wheel is so small, it responds instantly with every ups and downs of the roads. On the other hand when you ride modern Tesla cars, or let’s say a regular Toyota car, you can hardly feel any bump. The reason is simple, you use springs between the chasis and the wheels. You sit on a comfy seat that leverage those bumps. More importantly, you make the radius of the wheel a bit more larger. This big radius wheel surface just helps to let your car ignore all those small cracks on the road.

Life is a continuous journey. Along with this journey the sky remains high and the roads are obviously long. And there are ups and downs in those long roads. If you walk with small vision, you have to response frequently with those small bumps. Where, if you target a several years long plan, you will feel that these bumps are not hitting you any more. It doesn’t mean that your sensors are getting weaker. It means, you have found the fine points, you can feel them deeply and you know which items to prioritize.

As a society we have our families with us. We are loved by our dearest ones. Most people understand this love when they have a fear of losing the attachment with their dearest ones. There are neighbours, critics, evils as well. They scolds on your failure, they claps when you succeed. These are part of life. The more you can tolerate your surroundings, the more wisdom you can reach yourself.

We, human being, remember our life events by milestones. He did great in High schools. She did great high schools. They did great in competitions. But if you look ten years back from now, you see that there are a lot of small events that you can not remember yourself. And when after 30 years from now, should someone else write your biography, they will search for your ingenious deeds. The milestones. They will wrap those into stories, mix some hurdles and represent to the world as you ingeniously handled all of them. The awesome heroes who really did brilliant works, had definitely failed in their work, but they ignored their failures, went more deeper to the fine details. The catch is, if you look far, the mole like events doesn’t turn out your course. It helps to focus on larger achievements.

Pray for the best, accept what happens and then make the best out of it. Sail yourself for the important things that you want in your life. Let anything else not change your course. Happy sailing 🙂


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